“You cannot judge the quality of another’s friendship by superficial appearances, especially when things are going smoothly. It is only when we have experienced the worst, most crushing of times—when we have plumbed the depths of life—that we can experience the joys of genuine friendship. Only a man of principle, a woman of resolve—a person who stays true to their chosen path—can be a trusted and true friend, and have real friends in turn.”—Wisdom for Modern Life (via thelittlephilosopher)
“Being a woman does not mean you have nothing to do with masculine energy. Similarly, being a man does not mean you have nothing to do with the feminine. Vaginas and penises are not the only things that define our sexual nature. Our lives are influence by the presence within us of both feminine and masculine energies. It is important that these energies maintain harmoy within us.”
Trying to be patient & trying to not act without fully thinking things through .
I just feel like I don`t have times for games . So when things happen, I`m just done . I`m done with him, done with whatever we may have had . I have this thing where I want to start with someone where we both have clean slates .
But I always have a clean slate, but it seems like the guys never do .
The guy I went on a date with, was pretty much GREAT . But he`s arguing with his ex via text because of a status he put on FB . You`re broken up, ya`ll don`t “care” about either one, yet you`re still arguing about Facebook statuses ?
I have to side eye that . Is that what I have to look forward to ? I don`t have the energy to share, nor worry about your previous relationships . We`re not even dating & yet you have ex drama . Says quite a bit .
I say to him, you have drama . To which he replies, no she has drama . TO which I reply, it`s obvious you both do . He says, no I`m done with that . I`m not worried about her anymore . I thought you settled all that ? He says, he thought they did too . 0_0 I flat out say, someone has too much baggage for me . He asks, who ? I reply, YOU . I`d rather do without all of that potential drama, & him as well . I`m trying to not jump before I look, but it`s kind of hard . I`m used to dropping people as soon as they do something I`m not really into because it`s annoying .
He says what most people would if they`re in that situation, how he`s into me & how he doesn`t have any baggage . How he`s done with that, he doesn`t have time to be worried about that chick . The only girl he`s worried about is me . He`s feeling me , he`d be dumb to stop talking to me because of her blah blah blah .
I ask if he`s sure lol . I don`t want to be in the way of anything that I might be oblivious to . He says yeah & tries to talk more, but I stop texting . I need to think . It might seem like overreacting, but oh well . I take these things, no matter how small, into consideration . It`s the small shit that people tend to look over & wonder why things happened right under their nose . Ugh it`s ALWAYS something lol . & this is why I shall continue to with my plan to be single . I just can`t deal .
I`m happy, but not quite excited in a sense . I`m just READY . Ready to move forward with this & have an official ship date & to officially enlist already . This has been a long process for me, but it taught me that I can be patient & positive, even when things are against me .
I went on a date last night . =DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
It was really fun . At first he was going to drive, but since I know the area better I just drove us in my beetle bug, but I didn`t mind at all . I`m an indecisive driver so I`d hate for other people to be all over the street because I can`t make up my mind of where I want to go lol .
We went to eat first in Lakewood, but that Applebees was PACKED . So I went to a different one in Tacoma ( which was still packed ) but it was only like a 10 minute wait . But it was really fun, food was good, conversation was good, there was a really nice vibe the entire night . He said I make him laugh, so I was happy . Then we went to the movies back in Lakewood & those chairs are soooooo comfortable . They recline & feel like clouds, minus all the sounds they make because they`re leather lol . But we went to see Red Tails & it was a really good movie . I teared up towards the end, but yeah lol . After that we went & chilled, watched tv, and I was KNOCKED out .
He`s such a gentleman, so that was really nice . He`s not a whore lol, so the topic of sex never really came up ( which was GREAT ), there wasn`t any touching like that, no making out, no nothing . It was all respectable & I liked it . There was no pressure, no second guessing things, it was just calm & fun . The only time sex was referred to a teeny bit was when Rihanna`s talk that talk song came on, & I asked if he talked that talk or something stupid like that lmao .
I had a good time & we have a little day planned to go to Seattle & eat Pho since he`s never had it smh lol . =)
people are so bitter about Valentine`s day already . Just status after status on how it`s stupid . How you should cherish your S/O everyday, not one day . How it`s stupid . How it`s stupid . How it`s stupid . Cry cry cry, whine whine whine .
What does it matter to you ? If people want to celebrate then let them have their romantic moment . And who`s to say they don`t cherish their S/O everyday ? This “holiday” is specifically to do exactly that . Damn, people act like they hate to see others happy or something ? If you don`t like, then you don`t like it . No need to BASH everyone that does though .
Some of you just need to get fucked & then hit in the face with a pink teddy bear covered with hearts & beat over & over with a bouquet of roses .
Just upset and complaining, that`s why you`re dateless now lol .
I`m such a sucker for sweet talk . Especially pet names .
Idk why . I just have this fixation of hearing things . Hearing nice things from someone I`m interested in, but I can usually tell if it`s genuine or not, so when it is, it`s magnificent . It gives me this . . unexplainable high I suppose you could say .